Fashion Show Etiquette: How Should You Act at a Fashion Show?

Jamie and the Jones final walk @ NFW12.

photo by Nashville Fashion Blog

The Saturday of Nashville Fashion Week, while attending the Tim Gunn event at the Mall at Green Hills, I ran into a friend and fellow NFW patron. We began discussing the week’s events, fashions, designers, models, venues, looks, and guests. As the conversation progressed, we rested on the topic of fashion show etiquette, and what we considered ‘appropriate behavior’ when attending such an event. It was interesting, I noted, that while we were all at the same Fashion Week events, the behaviors of attendees varied from night to night, designer to designer, and model to model. Some guests sat poised and collected, watching fashions glide down runways, perhaps eliciting a nod of approval, simple smile, or quick comment to a friend. Other guests watched the same runway fashions and texted on their phones, laughed boisterously with neighbors, or clapped loudly while cheering and whistling for NFW models.

This beautiful Versace-clad model caused quite a response at NFW12.

photo by Nashville Fashion Blog

Over my past four years living in Nashville, I’ve attended a multitude of fashion shows and events boasting a variety of themes, atmospheres, and target audiences. I’ve adorned myself in my classiest ensembles for elegant shows at the Symphony Center and NFW for designers like Isaac Mizrahi, Versace, Christian Siriano, and Marchesa. I’ve dressed down for DIY fashion events put on by high school students and parents. Flirty dresses have been worn for casual fashion shows for Blush Boutique, Naked Without Us, or RAW Artist local designers. Blogger Jade from Diva Fabulosa believes when attending a fashion show, one should always dress the part. She cites, “you may not be one of the models walking the runway, but it still shows good taste when you dress appropriately for a fashion show.” Every show may call for a particular look, but does it call for different etiquette?

A rare glimpse of me at the Art Institute of Tennessee-Nashville's 2009 fashion show.

Designer Joseph Domingo believes poor fashion show etiquette “threatens the class and respect of the industry” and must be addressed. And here we rest on the underlying question, What is proper etiquette at a fashion show? While I certainly have my opinions on the matter, I decided to do a little investigative research to discover what others believed the dos and don’ts of fashion show behavior are.

What is fashionably late?

A 2009 article from Glamour Magazine discusses fashion show etiquette, highlighting ways to look like a front-row regular. The first tip? Have your cell phone in-hand at all times because, “How else are you going to tap out urgent messages (e.g., “OMG: Whitney and Olivia both sitting front row at Thakoon. Hair=Amazing!”) to coworkers and friends?” Writer Sylvie Branch advises those hoping to look like an insider at fashion shows become surgically attached to their phones and to text everyone and anyone constantly. New York-based style expert, TV personality, and author Jene Lucaine also believes texting at fashion shows is not disruptive, as some of those texting are sending notes to bosses, editors, or sharing runway photos with friends. Lucaine says “designers LOVE getting instant attention for their shows” and believes bloggers (especially those front row with live updates) are an integral part of the fashion industry and should be on their electronics for the duration of the show. However, popular fashion runway blogger Laetitia of Mademoiselle Robot believes one should never, ever be on the phone or tweet during a fashion show. She states, “Show some respect to the designer and if you're at a show, watch it rather than brag about it on Twitter or say how amazing it is… sometimes 140 characters just don’t cut it.”

Niki and Paris Hilton texting during a 2009 fashion show.

Personally, I tuck the phone neatly away in my purse, after putting it on silent of course, at the start of any fashion show. I consider it highly disrespectful and rude to be on my phone, texting, tweeting, blogging, etc., during the few minutes a designer has worked hundreds of hours on creating. I want to show my enthusiasm and appreciation for their hard work by admiring every look, fabrication, stitch, and embellishment, and telling my friends about it later.

So when you’re front row at a fashion show or event and an incredible piece comes down the runway, what do you do? How do you react? Do you show support by clapping and eliciting excited yells? Or do you remain silent and reserve your enthusiasm for the final walk? What should you do?

A standing ovation for designer Gustavo Cadile presented by Gus Mayer for NFW11. 

Photo by Nashville Fashion Blog.

According to Glamour Magazine, when you are wowed by runway pieces and models, one must always keep their cool: “a simple golf clap- reserved for the end of the show- is the respectful amount of enthusiasm to show for the clothes.” Branch also suggests curbing your enthusiasm, showing “only mild approval at the most beautiful dress you’ve ever seen.” Eboyne Jackson, fashion editor of DAM Magazine, believes talking during shows should be kept to a hushed minimum. She states, “In most cases, people will side-glance each other to show their disdain or approval, and whisper to each other, but for the most part, talking [should be] kept at a bare minimum.” Jackson also cites that most guests are so engaged in the fashion show, they don’t want to be distracted by conversation or miss a single moment.

Anna Wintour postulates, while Sara Jessica Parker makes a quick comment at the Alexander Wang fashion show.

I can’t help but challenge Jackson’s last comment. What about those who are not absolutely engrossed in the shows? Some fashion show attendees may simply want something ‘new’ to do on a Friday night with girlfriends, or perhaps their significant other dragged them to the event (I’ve been guilty of doing that a few times myself). It is not reasonable to expect every fashion show patron to breathe this industry and fully commit every second to studying the new designs, silently critiquing looks, or taking notes. This is just absurd- some people just want to let loose, see some cool clothes, hang out with their friends, and have a good time. And hey, I’m not saying I’m an exception. I always hope to have fun at the fashion shows I attend. But should my level of commitment to the evening dictate the behavior I exhibit as the fashions are being shown? Perhaps. Perhaps not. It is an interesting examination of human behavior and social acceptability. I’m sure my academic side is getting the better of me right now, but I’m curious to know the opinions of others out there regarding this topic. I can’t help but to think that the star of the evening is the designers and models, and all I want to do is pay attention. Perhaps I have an antiquated viewpoint on proper fashion show etiquette. Or perhaps I just need to let loose and give that intricately designed garment the loud whistle it deserves. 

References:

http://www.glamour.com/fashion/2009/02/fashion-week-etiquette-101#slide=1

http://mamasarollingstone.com/fashion-show-rules-etiquette/

http://www.divafabulosa.com/tips-on-proper-fashion-show-etiquette/

http://www.heliummagazine.com/new-column-fashion-show-etiquette-with-joseph-domingo/

http://voices.yahoo.com/fashion-show-tips-closer-6718770.html

Unbridled Fashion: Dressing for the Most Exciting Two Minutes in Sports

I hope everyone had a wonderful Easter weekend, hopefully filled with new family memories, chocolate rabbits, and dip dyed eggs. Mine was leisurely spent in Louisville attending downtown art walks, dining on Mom’s cooking, fawning over baby animals at the zoo, watching vintage Marilyn Monroe movies, and sipping bourbon on our back deck. There’s nothing like a weekend getaway to Mom and Dad’s house to center myself again and decompress from my busy Nashville life.

The stars of Bus Stop, Don Murray and Marilyn Monroe sharing a laugh.

On our downtown art walk I gathered a collection of Louisville publications and magazines to browse and a small bag of delicious chocolate covered coffee beans from historic Muth’s candies to snack on. While flipping through page after page, publication after publication, the reoccurring theme of Kentucky Derby was apparent. Advertisements for bourbon for milt juleps, millineries for custom designed Derby hats, and collections of designer dresses and fashions filled the pages.

I love hidden city gems.

For those unaccustomed to the yearly event, it is unworldly, bringing forth illusions of Southern fashion at its finest and, of course, big Derby hats. There is something decidedly charming about men in seersucker suits and handcrafted ties; women in polished, sophisticated, and classy dresses, pumps, and delicately constructed hats; and of course, an ice cold mint julep housed in silver cups in everyone’s hands.

Mint juleps in classic silver cups.

While the Kentucky Derby may be hours away, Nashville’s Steeplechase is only around the corner for those wishing to disperse among crowds of well-dressed parties on Derby Day. My suggestion for those wanting a more intimate gathering of friends? Host a tastefully constructed Derby party. There’s no reason to throw away this excuse to adorn yourself in a pretty dress and heels. And besides, when else is wearing an over the top hat not only appropriate, but nearly required?

How darling are these mint julep cupcakes?

There are several options for Derby dress, and hats alone can range from around $80 to over $1,300 (Kentucky folk take Derby hats very seriously). Here are a few inspirational options from last years’ event for dressing for the most exciting two minutes of sports, and remember, it’s all about the hat:

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Landing a Fashion Internship or Job in Nashville - Advice from a Professor

Lately I’ve received several emails from readers, students, and fashion enthusiasts alike about internship and job opportunities in Nashville. Some of have inquired with specific questions, while others seek general advice on starting a career in fashion. So, I decided to break from the typical fashion posts to cover a topic I advise students on daily. Here's my advice and tips for those seeking employment in the Nashville fashion industry:

Internships

Are there internship opportunities in Nashville?

Yes! There are always internship opportunities available in Nashville. At any given point I have about five to ten designers, boutique owners, and national retailers who have contacted me regarding internship opportunities that I don’t have enough students to fill.

Where should I do my internship?

This is absolutely up to you. Think about your interests and passions. Yes, you’re interested in fashion, but what specifically? If you’re hands-on and creative, perhaps visual merchandising may be of interest to you. Seek internships at Urban Outfitters, Nordstrom, or Forever 21. Maybe you want to be a fashion designer- seek an internship with one of our local talents. If you’ve always wanted to be a boutique owner, hit up stores like Blush Boutique or Bullets and Mullets to get an in-depth experience of store ownership.

Do I need a resume?

It depends, but typically yes, you’ll need a resume. If you’re already friendly with the parties you’re seeking an internship with, a good conversation about your skills and passions may suffice. If you’re applying for a position with a national retailer in-person or online, you’ll definitely need a resume. I always suggest having strong resume ready and in hand. 

How do I get an internship?

Easy- ask! I’m always amazed when I have somebody say to me, “I’ve been looking for an internship for months and can’t find one.” I ask them where they’ve looked, who they’ve talked to, which stores they’ve enter, and who they’ve been chatting up. The typical response? “Nobody. I’ve been looking online.”

Online is a great way to start searching for internships, but not always the quickest way to score one. Craigslist and Monster.com typically bode well for internship seekers. If you’re looking for internships with local companies or designers, I suggest taking the Facebook route. Friend local designers, like local retailers. DO NOT Facebook message these people asking for internships- it’s tacky and impersonal. DO email them (with a professional email address) or call directly. Many times I find out about internship opportunities with companies like Blush Boutique or Sleeveless through their Facebook posts inquiring about interns.

If you’re seeking an internship with a national retailer, like Macy’s, Dillard’s, or Nordstrom, do apply online. Also, call the store and ask if there is anyone who can assist you in the process.

Last and most importantly, if you’re looking for an internship at a specific local boutique, for example, ask! Business owners are flattered to know that somebody out there admires their company or them so much, they want to learn from them. Seriously. I’ve scored countless internships for my students by simply asking the store owners if they’d be willing to accept interns. That’s how I got my students started interning at Tidwell and Perryman. I attended Local Honey’s store opening, ran into Kevin (Perryman), told him I had a couple of students who would be a perfect fit for his company, and asked if they could intern with him. The answer? Yes!

I’m studying (insert non-fashion related major here), but I am passionate about fashion. What advice do you have?

Do as many internships as you can. There is no better way to learn about the industry than becoming directly involved and immersing yourself into it. The great thing about internships is that it allows you try different aspects of the industry without fully committing yourself to one area. Intern doing visual merchandising. Give buying a go. See what it’s like to be a store owner. Try your hand at styling. There’s no better way to discover what you’re truly passionate and good at without trying it all.

Jobs

Are there job opportunities in Nashville?

Yes! Obviously Nashville is no New York or Los Angeles, but the fashion scene here is thriving and growing exponentially each year. Several designers are making a living creating exquisite fashion sold online and at local retailers. Companies like VF Imagewear and Simplicity allow employers to lead a more corporate life with jobs in product designing, merchandising, and allocation. Others are living the fashion life owning boutiques, becoming marketing directors or buyers for other companies, or living the dream as a fashion stylist.

How do I apply for a job?

If you’re seeking full-time employment, you’re likely to find job postings on a variety of websites from Monster.com, Craigslist, and even Facebook pages of companies. But I always suggest and recommend to others to look directly on the company’s website under the Careers or Jobs section. Chances are, you’ll find something that speaks to you with a company you want to work for. And if you don’t find something immediately, check the website again the next day, and every day after that, and every day until you become employed. Yes, I’m serious. No, it’s not crazy. You never know when a company will post a job opportunity- maybe seconds after you’ve closed out your window and moved on to the next website. That’s why it’s imperative to check daily. You may not see anything for weeks, but as soon as a position opens, you’ll be one of the first to apply.

Finding full-time employment can be difficult for anybody, and especially in times of strained economic conditions. And the chances are, if you’re a recent graduate with little to no experience, it’ll be just that much more difficult to find your dream job. This isn’t meant to be a discouragement, but a dose of reality, and a push to get you to take this process with seriousness.

I found and applied for the perfect job. Should I hold off on applying to other jobs until I hear back from this one?

No. Keep applying for jobs until you get one. Who knows what’ll happen with the job you applied to and may be perfectly qualified for. Maybe you’ll get it and maybe you won’t. Having backups is wise.


I applied for countless jobs, went on several interviews, and was accepted to multiple positions across the country before I started my current career. Having multiple options allowed me to graciously pass on positions and accept the job I really wanted- leading the Fashion & Retail Management department at the Art Institute of Tennessee-Nashville. 

I applied for the job, but I haven’t heard anything back. What should I do?

I advise my students to wait a week before acting. People get busy with work, and maybe they just haven’t had time to sift through resumes yet. But waiting about a week before a follow up is a good idea. I suggest following up with an email (to the specific person who would be hiring you) with a professionally-written statement about how you’re following up on the applied for position, can provide any additional information necessary, and you look forward to speaking with them soon. If you don’t hear back a week after the email, follow up with a call. If you’re still drawing up blank, it may be time to back off. You want to remain persistent, not annoying.

I got an interview! How should I prepare?

Do some investigative research on the company you’re applying for. What type of company are they? What job advancement opportunities can they provide for individuals in their organization? What notable things has this company done? Bringing up these pre-researched facts can add bonus points to your interview.

Think ahead about what you think you’ll be asked and prepare some answers. Common questions may include, What your greatest strengths/weaknesses, what previous experience make you suited for this position, or what can you add to our organization? Knowing the answer ahead of time will make you more confident and prepared in the interview. Also, think about what questions you want to ask them. Remember, you’re interviewing them as well. I’ve been on several job interviews where during the course of the interview I realized this was not a company I wanted to work for. Questions you may want to ask include, What career advancement opportunities do I have with this position, what type of benefits do you offer, or how or when will my performance be evaluated on this job?

Also, make sure you know proper directions to your interview location. Nothing is worse than a late interviewee.

What should I bring to the interview?

Several copies of your resume on thick resume paper (don’t pull an Elle Woods here), a portfolio if you have one, and a positive attitude. Nothing is more of a turnoff than an interviewee with a negative disposition. Your interviewer will usually inform you if other materials are required.

What do I wear?

You may be in fashion, but this is no excuse for dressing inappropriately. I’m not suggesting you wear a suit, but a tasteful dress or smart pants and top will suffice. It may seem obvious, but I’m going to lay it out there. No short skirts (knee-length only, please), no jeans, no low-cut breast-baring tops, no sandals. You’re going to an interview, not a dinner with your girlfriends.

Of course, you should always use your best judgment. A freshly pressed white button up, slim black pants, patent pumps and pearls may not be appropriate for an interview at Urban Outfitters, but would be perfectly acceptable at Nordstrom. Think about where you’re applying, and professionally dress on par with that company.

What do I do after the interview?

The day after the interview, follow up with a handwritten note. Emails are nice, but nothing is more sophisticated and mature than a smart handwritten card. Thank them for the interview, and quickly restate why you think you’d be a great fit for the company.

I’ve interviewed a lot of people over the years and whenever I receive a handwritten note, that person always stands out to me, and I appreciate the gesture. If nothing else, a handwritten card puts your name in the potential employer’s mind again- hey, it doesn’t hurt!

I hope this internship and job advice has provided a little light on the whole process, and I encourage all my readers seeking either good luck in your hunt!

Nashville Fashion Week 2012: Day 2

My Nashville Fashion Week Day 2 should have looked like this:

 Eva Franco

 

Leona

 

Sjobek

 

Wai Ming

 

Zang Toi

(photo credit: NFW 2012)

...but instead, my Nashville Fashion Week Day 2 looked like this:

 

 

That's right. THAT is how sick and low I felt. I actually laid in bed and watched the 1990 horror show Kindergarten Cop. It was epically pitiful. (Is this pollen killing anybody else? I swear, I never had allergies until I moved to Nashville!)

I debated on whether to deal with it and go to NFW, but I figured it best to stay home and get some rest and not push myself to the brink of exhaustion, rendering me unable to attend the rest of the week. But I'm feeling so much better today and plan to be back (camera in hand, tissues in purse) at tonight's events. Day 3, here I come...

Gearing Up For a Fashionable Week

It's been a little while since I've have the time to write a personal update. I've been swamped for the past few months with work and school, and most things fashionable have unfortunately fell by the wayside. Womp wah. But with the upcoming city events, it's time to dust off the camera, throw on an intricate ensemble, and head out to the most anticipated event of the year- Nashville Fashion Week. With the mixture of a one-year anniversary with the boyfriend, writing papers for my Doctorate classes, Fashion Week, and finals week at work (i.e.- grading a ton of student projects and papers), next week will be a whirlwind of chaos- and I couldn't be more excited! 


Check frequently on Nashville Fashion Blog for Fashion Week updates and runway show photographs. Last year's event was thrilling, and with one Fashion Week under their belts, I have no doubt and full confidence that the NFW team will pull off another exciting and dynamic event. See you next week!

Friday Five

Five things, Nashville and beyond, that I'm currently trending...


1. The Robinson Satchel by Tory Burch


I have been searching for years and finally found it- the absolute perfect handbag. Simplistic in design, this quality handbag offers limited frills and lacks a faddish quality that would render it outdated. Classic, clean, and wearable with a multitude of ensembles, this, my dear readers, is my dream handbag. Perfect in size, shape, and created from durable and lasting materials, I am waiting for the day when this will be draping from the crook of my arm. I need this bag.

Named for Tory's parents, Reva and Buddy Robinson, the Robinson Satchel, made from the highest quality scratch-resistant Italian leather, is the ultimate everyday carryall. The chic, roomy shape features plenty of pockets for organizing essentials, while the over-the-shoulder strap allows for easy on-the-go access. - $550.

2. Blue Velvet Cupcakes

I'm never one to shy away from a well-deserved sweet treat. Recently I discovered the newly-opened Blue Velvet Cupcakes, located in Antioch, TN. I had a chance to stop by this darling little gem and treat myself to a few of their local goods. With a consistent rotation of flavors, you're guaranteed to find something new and that you'll love every visit. 

The tangerine cupcake was light, airy, fluffy, and delicious. 

 You'll be dreaming of summer bonfires in no time with this delicious s'mores cupcake.

3. Cocktails at Wantabe

In an effort to fine-tune their menu, sushi and asian cuisine restaurant Wantabe recently held a cocktail tasting, which I was more than happy to be a part of! Sometimes a girl just needs a dragon roll and drink in hand.

4. Fashion for a Fraction

I'm always down for a charitable cause..

5. The I Styled Me Fashion Show

Last night I had the honor of guest judging this Goodwill-inspired thrift store styling competition of local high school students. As I was on stage most of the evening, I didn't have an opportunity to snap any photos, but I'm sure they'll be floating around soon. 

All of the student models and looks were great, and I could tell the students put forth a lot of effort with their ensembles and had tons of fun. All proceeds from the event went back to the schools. Great cause.

Friday Five: Fashion Week Focus

When the onslaught of beautiful images we're getting from New York Fashion Week, it's nearly impossible to narrow down the hundreds of exquisitely tailored and delicately draped garments into a mere few. But in keeping with the Friday Five Nashville Fashion Blog tradition, here are some of my favorite looks from a few favorite designers.

Billy Reid

Derailing from his down-home looks, this year's Billy Reid runway show produced tailored men's and women's looks utilizing traditional neutral color schemes with pops of blue. This monochromatic look, though not as opulent as many ensembles at New York Fashion Week, is the epitome of sophisticated ready-to-wear and will easily generate sales at the cash register. 

Christian Siriano

Since his show at last year's Nashville Fashion Week and the press (both positive and negative (ahem.. New York fashionistas..)) Siriano received, I think Nashville now has a special place in their hearts for the Project Runway winner. Nashville and beyond, people are rooting for Siriano to succeed. 

This seasons collection was less dramatic than I had anticipated for the avant garde designer, but ready-to-wear is derived to be a sales-generator, not an opportunity to go crazy. I chose this look from Siriano because I appreciated the juxtaposition between the pureness of the white flowy ballerina skirt and hardness of the tight black leather jacket. This give me a few ideas for my own closet...

Elizabeth and James

Say what you want about the Olsen twins' clothing line, but Elizabeth and James (named after their sister and brother) have become a hot commodity in the closets of fashionistas worldwide. And I'm loving this easy ready-to-wear look, which encompasses several of my aesthetics into one refined and tailored ensemble. All black? check. Oversized sunnies? check. Peplum silhouette? check. Thick scarf? check. Black gloves for no reason? check. All in all, this outfit is a win in my book.

Marchesa

Just like Siriano, Nashville has a soft spot for Marchesa, ever since last year's Spring Symphony Fashion Show, when dozens of these beautiful gowns glided down the runway in the magical symphony hall. 

Looking through the Marchesa collection, it's nearly impossible to pick one, out of the every, breathtaking gown. This design duo has become a favorite for celebrities and red carpet wear. The gown above produces an old-world feel, reminding us of the lost art of craftsmanship, and brings an homage of Alexander McQueen and unique glamour. 

Red Valentino

While looking through Valentino's ready-to-wear collection I stopped on this photograph. Something about it triggered a spark- a memory of a previous time and popular fashion. Racking my brain for a minute or two, I realized I had seen this look before... on Cher in Clueless. Hellllllooooo 1995! Well, sophisticated and updated 1995. We all know fashion is cyclical and designers often rely on past inspirations for new ones. I doubt Valentino's team was paying homage to my favorite childhood movie, but the matching jacket and short skirt, paired with tall socks and tiny pumps, do look a little Clueless. Regardless of the inspiration (real or imagined), the sophisticated schoolgirl look is a win. 

Happy Valentine's Day from Nashville Fashion Blog!

 

 

 

 

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